Am I being selfish for wanting another wedding?

My wedding day was a disaster. Just about everything that could go wrong, did. MIL was being a pain in the you know what. The photographer was two hours late. My cakes were melting because the facility did not turn on the ac in time. The facility was dirty (sticky floors, bathrooms not clean) nor did they set the reception up like I asked. My guests left early because of a late start in the wedding (because of problems beyond my control). Some guests got lost on their way. There was a problem with the facility that escalated into a shouting and cursing match between me and the overseer of the facility. My dj had to set up on the floor. My husband forgot to take the tags off of my rings. The tablecloths were not long enough for the tables (two tablecloths barely covered the tops of the tables. And that is just the half of it. Wedding dress didn't fit (the straps were too long). Now tell me, am I being unreasonable or selfish because I want the wedding of my dreams?