How to manage curly frizzy hair?

I have wavy/curly hair and it is very unmanageable. Currently I am using Herbal Essences long term relationship shampoo & conditioner because I am also trying to grow my hair. Then after I get out of the shower I use John Freida curl boosting mousse and scrunch and air dry. The problem is it dries frizzy and when I wake up it's even worse. How can I get more manageable hair that is curly and full of life? D: